"How to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend"

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In every relationship there is a time that makes you think if you have to break up, maybe it’s not necessary but you have to think it very well, and if you’re going to do it how to do it with out hurting the other person. Some fights make you think that it’s over and you have to break up, but that’s not always true, some fights makes your relationship stronger and show you the importance of it and how much you love each other. For some couples every fight means the same question: it is time to break up or should I continue with this? And it’s very important, your complete relation and sometimes your life depends from the answer of that question, broke ups and long relationships makes you grow up. Everybody have a best friend, who is always there for you, and the one that know you best, and all that, but never ever let him/her to introduce in your love relationship, it is only for you and your girlfriend/boyfriend. She/he would think that her/his opinion is the best and you have to do but it’s not, you should follow your heart.

First of all you have to decide if you really want to break up or not. Sometimes we’re just having a bad day and we don’t have time for our boyfriend/girlfriend or you have problems and that’s why you’re acting like a jerk, it doesn’t mean that your feelings for her/him change, it’s just the moment. A good way to decided if you want to break up it’s to compare what you and she/he have done, I mean if the problem continues and he/she apology, but he/she continues acting the same it’s a good choice to break up. Never let your heart take the choice by its own you should take it thinking with your heart and brain too, because sometimes if you just let your heart think it would want to keep the person even if he/she is a bad person or not, or if you just think with your brain it won’t forgive anything and if she/he seems a little jerk, it would want to break up.

Now that you decided to break up you should follow some easy steps: The first one it’s to visualize the complete relationship and detect the problem while you’re preparing yourself to talk about it with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Then you must write down what you’re going to say, you must be very subtle to not hurt his/her feelings, making very clear why are you finishing the relationship. It is ok to practice it like if it were an important speech, because in fact it is, now that you practice, what is next to make a date to talk about it, chose a nice place not romantic but not ugly, wear casual clothes, not very sexy, but a little bit sensual to show him/her what he/she have lost. Then you should go there and just drop everything, and do not forget to be clear, because sometimes there are very ‘’innocent’’ people who don’t get it when people break up with them. And that’s it now you’re single again and you can live your life

Don’t ever forget the three most important steps of breaking up: Be subtle, clear and to remark the reason of the rupture. It is very easy to break up, after you decided if it is the right option, just analyze the situation, write down the problems, practice it, make a date to talk about it were appropriate clothes and finally enjoy your single life again.