How to make a good impression on a first date?

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The first date. Believe it or not someone out there is sweating over this same situation in this moment. It may even be someone in the same room as you are in right now. The truth is a First Date, besides being one of the most thrilling events a man can have, it is also a motive of distress for most of them. It is no secret that atleast 5 out of every 10 woman are going to regret you. That is a 50/50 chance of success –or utter failure— on any date. But hey, if she has already agreed to go out with you, you’re probably doing something right. But still, many things can go horribly, horribly wrong on a first date, and at the end of the night there’s only one thing which trully matters… Either she likes you or she doesn’t. So here are some things you must keep in mind when you go on the grate ordeal of The First Date.

First, keep in mind that no matter how deep the girl claimes she is, appearance is an important factor in making a good impression on a first date. But don’t give up just yet, even if you are one of those people who fell a couple of miles off the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down, you can still step up your game. Personally, I am not one one to care too much about looks, so when I say appearance what I really want to say is HYGENE. Some guys don’t seem to realize how important hygene really is. Just because you spraid on some lotion and popped in some breath-mits that doesn’t mean she’ll be willing to kiss you at the end of the date. So guys, please, shower! Reapeatedly if you must! Wash and floss your teeth. Nothing makes a girl swoon like a billiondollar smile. Pick out something nice to wear, girls don’t expect you to look like a model. Just choose something that says ‘Hey, even though I’m absolutely color blind and have never in my life watched Queer Eye for the Straight Guy I think you’re important enough to make an effort’.

Second, when picking out a place to take your sweetheart make sure you pick somewhere nice and affordable. The standard is Dinner and a Movie. Movie and Dinner is a preferable order since watching the movie prior to dinner works up some hunger (when you’re hungry food tastes better) and you’ll have something to talk about during dinner. Pick a good movie, and keep it within the two hour ratio or she’ll be to tired by the end of it. When picking a place to have dinner there’s no need to spend too much to make a good impression. Pick a place with a nice vibe, somewhere you two can talk and get to know each other. Keep the story of your life simple, there’s no need to tell her you’re childhood traumas just yet. Talk about standard things, like your favorite book, what does she do in her free time? Stuff like that. Let her know you’re intrested in her. Girls digg that.

Third, and this is the part many guys seem to forget. Keep it real. Be yourself, dude. If she’s meant to like you she will. Spicing yourself up by pretending to be someone you’re not just makes you look phony and unatractive, not to say pathetic. Trust me girls can tell when you’re full of crap (pardon my french), and that will just have her running to her doorstep and inside her house before you can even think about giving her a goodnight kiss. Oh and about that, the infamous goodnight kiss, try your best not to atack her with your lips at the first chance you get. Patiently walk her to her door, if she hesitates to enter the house, plays with her keys in a stalling manner of looks into your eyes for a long time, then she’s waving you in. You’ll know when she wants it, trust me.

So basically what I’m trying to say is that if you keep this simple 4 things in mind while your out on your first date there’s a higher possibility of succes. Of course all things considered there’s still that 50% chance she will not like you. But hey, there are many girls out there who would be thrilled to have someone like you. So if you follow my recomendations and still get rejected don’t get discouraged, she probably just wasn’t for you. So good luck with your dating and remember that being yourself is the most important part of dating.

Enjoy,
-arym